Boy : What re your views on polygamy/ polyandry ?
Girl : I wonder why marry to keep multiple partners
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Boy : 😂😂😂😂😂
U re super rebellious : more than the Xhusu tribe to which Nelson Mandela belonged !!
Girl : Was gud fr d times whn ‘live in’ was not discovered
I support live-in
Boy : Does ‘live-in’ allow polygamy ?
I mean multiple partners
Girl : I think only rule there is ur own morality
Depends on d person one is wid i think
Boy : How can ‘one’s’ morality depend on the ‘other’ ???
Girl : Ofcourse it does…relationships r about also wht d othr person wants
Boy : Hmm /:
Heard Ranbir Kapoor saying this once : well, i cannot be committed to someone only because he/she is not treacherous : has to be beyond that !!
Girl : True…but treachery is big…enuf to make cracks in a foundation
Boy : What abt the converse : if there’s no treachery, is that reason enough for rock solid glue 🙂
Girl : Hehe no…
Boy : Hmmm
Girl : In marriages it is about wht d partner wants wht d inlaws want..wht relatives want blah blah blah
Boy : Agree : marriages re more complex
But in case of multiple partners, wd it not again be abt what multiple partners want ?? 😉
Girl : Look at draupadi…guess she took care of each one of thm…
I dont knw any othr account 😛
Boy : Draupadi : Superwoman !
Othr account : Since society doesn t allow n those don t come to light : except perhaps may be some communities ? some Ladakh buddhists earlier days : where a wife wd be married to husband’s brother as well !
Girl : Ya …iknw it exists..jus tht i dnt hav info
Boy : So perhaps when society allows multiple partners, it’s easier ??
( Nelson Mandela s father had 4 wives )
Girl : Ur readin his bio?
Boy : Jus started : n that set me thinking 😂😂
Girl : Lol
May b u shud pick on d subject tht intrsts u now
Boy : Any suggestion ?
Girl : Hehe on polygamy/yandry?…gt to chk
Boy : 😊
Also read somewhere ( not sure if medically true) : that phy attraction to a man induces release of ocytocin in a woman that makes her want his emotional n non platonic support too ! True ??
Girl : Blame it on d hormones!
Boy : Hehe it s alwaz the hormones 😂😂 in few yrs all philosophy wd anyways be clear !
Girl : 😹 m sure it is d hormones@
Boy : So, till the time hormones r there, what’d be the right conduct ? ( the original ques 😳)
Girl : U in a very thoughtful mood 😳
Boy : Thoughtful ? Hope not intimidating ..Sorry !! Ve faced this allegation many times ‘ तुम सोचते बहुत हो’ 😔
Girl : 😆
Boy : ( And there s a philosophy, there’s no right or wrong – so let’s rephrase the ques : till the times hormones r there, what conduct wd make u happy ?
Girl : Yeh sochna padhega…i believe one shud always go wid d flw
Boy : 😊
Girl : 🤔 now thtz my thotful smiley
Boy : But u said relationships r also about what the other person wants : how can this, and going wid the flow go together ?
Girl : Therz no bindin to this thot
Itz jus an opinion
N itz no rule either
One shud go wid d flow of ones own belief n opinions
Now thtz my view on it
To each his own
My opinions r waitin to b dished out
Boy : Your opinions remain safe and non judged 🙂
Girl : Thtz d best thing ‘non judged’👍
Boy : Not sure when i ll be sure of my opinions :
To leave a thot, here’s a list :
Girl : Oh yesss plz share
Boy : 1) Perhaps, the best is to not have relationships, since they bind. In other words, be a Buddha. But we have hormones, and we re lesser mortals. Though aspiring for that !
2) In relationships, due to hormones n flows, multiple partners is ?natural
3) Since (today’s) societal norms do not permit multiple partners, purauing same is stressful : since one has to lie : which is heavy on heart !
Soln :
1) Be a Buddha
2) Change societal norma to suit your convictions ( r your convictions same as that of majority ?)
3) Give damn to societal norms; live with some lies !
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1st two are ideal !
3) is jugaad !
And yes, if we re ving time for chats this long : means we re underworked !!
So , 4) is immerse in work/ passion stronger than hormones : and then, may be that ll lead to Buddha as well 😉 😂
Girl : 😂
Like the solutions
Underworked ? It is sundaaaay
A relaxed one at tht
Boy : 😂😂😂
